I asked Tau Chuan Ling for a message about relationships:
Relationships are something that cause a great deal of stress, worry and fear in many people. All too many people look to their relationships for their joy and happiness when one’s joy and happiness can only be found within. This notion is not very romantic, but indeed the way it is.
If you are spending most of your time trying to figure out who’s to blame in an unhappy relationship then consider it’s you and decide whether you are willing to the take actions that will make the relationship a happy one changing only yourself. If so, then take those actions. If not, the relationship will never be a happy one. My highest blessings.
~ Message from Tau Chuan Ling