There is a moment in each life where the necessity to become an adult outweighs the joys of being a child. For some, this happens very early while others have time to mature physically before taking on the role of an adult. I say this because there is no exact truth for everyone. There is only the truth that works for your life. Discover, then honor your truth. Allow yourself to live your life accordingly even if your inclination is to follow the truth of others.